Showing posts with label obsessive compulsive disorder (ocd). Show all posts
Showing posts with label obsessive compulsive disorder (ocd). Show all posts

Wednesday, 6 June 2012

Propensity to Proof Read

I was given some feedback from the facilitator of a course and was intrigued by one of the comments:

"Attention to detail is noted."  

I wasn't sure if it was a negative comment about my propensity to correct spelling and grammar mistakes or if it was somehow a positive note.  Luckily I asked about it and found out that it was indeed a compliment for my thorough completion of workbooks with insightful answers, or maybe rubbish answers but lots of them.

I expressed my apologies for correcting typographical or grammatical errors throughout the course but offered to proof read the course notes before it is offered later this year.  The facilitator said he might follow me up on that.  Yay!  I love proof reading.  He hadn't asked anyone to proof read the original notes which is why there were so many mistakes.  He also showed me that he had indeed noted on one of my assessment sheets that I had paid attention to detail in my workbook and written well thought out answers.

I'm quite intrigued by the way people label attention to detail as "obsessive".  I was discussing it with a friend who said she only bothers to read over something she's written if it's something important.  I pointed out that we have exactly the same philosophy but I think all forms of written communication deserve to be reviewed.  I always check for spelling mistakes, missing punctuation and anything that might cause misunderstanding.

I have a whole board on Pinterest devoted to language.  Here are some of the pins:



Source: facebook.com via Amanda on Pinterest


Why attempt to communicate if you're not going to bother ensuring it will make sense to the receiver of the message?

It turns out that some people just don't care and to those people I say:

Just because I care,
it doesn't mean I have OCD.

Attention to detail is not OCD

I recently attempted to make a point and was misunderstood.  That never happens.

A friend posted something on facebook that I found quite amusing because I could identify with it.  I also found it quite offensive because I reckon it's completely misguided.

19 Things That Will Drive Your OCD Self Insane


My Comment:
"Just because some of us like things completed neatly and properly doesn't mean we are obsessive. It doesn't mean we have OCD selves, nor does it mean we have OCD or are suffering from an illness. It certainly does not indicate that we are OCD. It's like saying that your friend who has an itchy foot is CBL (Chronic Broken Leg).

If people are going to label attention to detail and a strong desire to put things right as Obsessive Compulsive Disorder, why not label those who don't care with Chronic Fatigue Syndrome? Surely a lack of care for things being well ordered and completed indicates laziness if an abundance of care means obsession.


Please discuss."

Response to my comment:
"It means you may have OCD tendancies :D "

WHAT?!  Now someone is diagnosing me with a predilection for a disorder that I've just said has nothing to do with me disliking chaos?

In the responses below the actual post I could only find one person who understood where I was coming from.  Thank you sarahn14 who wrote:
"You don't have OCD if you like things orderly. Perfectionism isn't OCD. You're never “so OCD” about something. Either you have the entire package or you don't. Stop making a serious illness an explanation for your quarks, oddities, and/or perfectionism."
 Honestly!  Some people like order and others couldn't care less.  Can we all stop saying that organised people have Obsessive Compulsive Disorder?